So when I ask for help, I usually need it. Rob finds it frustrating that when I ask for help, it usually means right at the moment I am asking. Like when I say "hey babe can you help me find my shoes?" You see if I ask for help when I am holding my backpack, Floyd's bag'o'food for daycare, my pump, and the boy, and I ask you to help me, it is cause I need it right then. Or like when I stumble out of bed at the crack of dawn to feed the boy, and with mild symptomatic hypotension and blurry vision I run into the doorway and almost split my lip open, fall to the floor, and cry for help, I usually need it right then. Rob apparently needs forward notice for such things. Am I wrong to expect help when I ask for it? Am I wrong to expect that he would stop what he was doing and help me?
Suggestions?
