So when I ask for help, I usually need it. Rob finds it frustrating that when I ask for help, it usually means right at the moment I am asking. Like when I say "hey babe can you help me find my shoes?" You see if I ask for help when I am holding my backpack, Floyd's bag'o'food for daycare, my pump, and the boy, and I ask you to help me, it is cause I need it right then. Or like when I stumble out of bed at the crack of dawn to feed the boy, and with mild symptomatic hypotension and blurry vision I run into the doorway and almost split my lip open, fall to the floor, and cry for help, I usually need it right then. Rob apparently needs forward notice for such things. Am I wrong to expect help when I ask for it? Am I wrong to expect that he would stop what he was doing and help me?
Suggestions?
4 comments:
Guys simply do not think they way we girls do. It is just not going to happen. My number one peeve is that Jeff thinks that if he thought it, I heard it. Hence I rarely get to hear his thoughts. Including important things. Fortunately his good things out weigh the frustrating ones. Gotta love em.
I just read this to Duane, and he said, yes, you are wrong.
I agree with Mary, it's never going to happen. Sad really. They just don't process like we do. It was fun seeing you over the 4th and meeting Floyd. He is a babe.
p.s. Don't forget about me doing laser hair removal and my need for a "real" job :)
True to that!
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